Quite often, an amazing phenomenon can be observed in our life: as soon as we begin to be too persistent in trying to change reality, to crush it to fit our desires and plans, the situation changes to the opposite. But, as soon as we “release” this situation, our plans come into life. Looks like a paradox, but what's behind it? How come our best intentions to changes can be met with the rejection from the part of the Universe?
To answer these questions, I want to cite the lines from the book “Life Lessons” By Elizabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler
In that above mentioned book authors tell about their personal experiences and experiences of others in interaction with the reality. “Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself and know that everything in this life has a purpose, there are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from.”
“You can become a channel and a source of great inner strength. But you must give up everything in order to gain everything. What must you give up? All that is not truly you; all that you have chosen without choosing and value without evaluating, accepting because of someone else’s extrinsic judgment, rather than your own; all your self-doubt that keeps you from trusting and loving yourself or other human beings.”
Life is a roller coaster. We can only take our ride on it, but we are not in control. We can not even change the speed or direction it takes us, and if you try to do so, you will loose the moment of joy from the ride, with all ups and downs.
We have to be in the accepting mode, mode of agreement. Stop worrying. Stop constant struggle, vain and destructive. Fighting generates fear, fear gives a false impulse to control every aspect of your life, every minute. It is time to let go of reins, letting the horse run free; go with the flow, not against it ...
Lots of people live with the believe that they need to control everything and always in their lives. Does Universe need our control to carry on? Will not sun rise on East, if we will not be in control?
We shall not forget, that besides our own lives, there is Conscious Universe around us, and this Universe lives by super natural, not quite understandable by us rules. And consequently, all our attempts to impose our will on this Universal Consciousness are doomed to failure in advance. However, there is a way to get alone with this Higher Consciousness, if the fulfillment of our desires does not contradict to the will of the Supreme Mind and does not suppress the will of other intelligent beings, we can just express our wish and let it go. We need to leave it to the sole discretion of the Universe, yet, knowing that Universe has only best for each one of us.
An if you allow the Universal Mind to do its job, the Universe builds chain of events in order for your most bright dreams and desires to come true. Personally, I follow this rule always this technique and I can confirm that it works if we are sincere in our cinteraction with the Universe.
Share with me your experiences and see you soon,