Give birth to your hidden Woman!
Today I want to share with you how both male and female qualities can resonate in one person. But let me share with you one story first.
There was a girl, she grew up and felt in love. She married, but they did not live happily ever after. It turned out that her husband was not ready to provide her with everything that she needed. And the Girl decided that she would not argue or press him, but she will achieve everything in life by herself by herself – without his help, support or approval. Who cares about his approvals, if she is capable to do everything by herself? She is strong, she can be financially and socially independent!
That was initial stage of her retrogression as woman. Why?
With all our strive to success, we, woman, are seriously losing in life quality neglecting our female nature.
Such life principles as:
– I must be strong
– I will do it myself
– My partner is not capable
– I do not need help, etc
lead us, woman, to the development of male qualities, and as a consequence of that, woman loses her female power. Modern youth is not scared by someone saying that “you will lose your female nature”. “So what? I am independent and happy! I do not need all that bull-shit about womanhood”. It is so sad that it might take her decades to realize that to be a Woman is really the only thing that she wanted all of her life.
The main danger is that this process is destructive. When woman loses her power, she can not be any more the “goddess” of the family. What does that mean?
Woman is to be filled with female energy which she shares with everything around her – her family, her children, her husband, all the rest of the World.
While cooking family dinner, real woman will fill this food with love, and later at the family table her husband and kids would eat this love and not only the physical food that she cooked.
You may argue that there are man Chefs who are more professional than woman. And you will fill your stomach, but this meal would not have that special energy. Male Chefs do not have this ability to fill the food with the energy of love. It is same as they can not breast-feed their children. Yes, they love them and care about them, but it is by nature, that they do not have such ability. Only woman can produce food that is literally charged with energy. Women who neglect their female nature and develop male character can not give much energy to their homes, to their food, to their family. Less likely there will be peace and comfort in their homes as well.
Is there any exception from this rule? Yes, there is. You may read more in my article My husband is a Woman. But to put it in some words, there is possibility to have family where woman has 80% of male qualities and she will be happy with her husband, provided that he has more than 80% of female in his nature. But there is huge risk of serious health problems and risks for both of them. Besides, such role change negatively affects their children, which would bring to psychological problems in the future.
On the other hand, if the female energy is fluently running in woman she can easily calm her children, just petting their heads; she takes off stress from tired after work husband even not saying a word. Her husband will not go away to a lover, and her household will abandon. Such woman is beautiful and healthy. Her energy is powerful and mysterious.
However you should not forget that s woman energy dwells only in woman nature.
Female energy leaves male nature and starts looking for some other external source of support. So if wife is lacking of female energy she unconsciously starts taking it from her family, her colleagues, all other people. Not that she can not help herself and her family, but she attracts destruction, poverty and sickness.
Have you ever seen Oriental yin-yang symbol. Have another look at it.
You will see that small dot inside of black or white field that is not dominating, but supplementing it. There are few male qualities that should be in every woman and same is true for man. But if woman is becoming more male-like she will whether be alone all of her life, or will be with man with 80% of female qualities, and it can seriously effect her health, that I already mentioned before.
So let’s have a look what female qualities every woman can and should develop?
Some Female qualities – ideally about 80% of your personality
Cleanliness (external, internal); sensuality; peacefulness; ability to ask and receive; forgiveness; ability to be grateful; ability to follow someone; filled with energy; openness; generosity; mercy; sentimentality; emotionality; humility; dreaminess; charm; beauty (external, internal); thrift; care for people; tenderness; mellowness; modesty; romanticism; hospitality; cordiality; hope; tenderness; contact; humility; love; empathy
Some Male qualities – ideally not more than 20% of your personality
Activity; force; confidence; perseverance; desire to win; responsibility; accuracy; restraint; justice; concentration; punctuality; obligation; asceticism; sense of purpose; spirit of competition; nobility; protection
And what is your personality? Share in comments, please. Are you happy with where you are?
So if your personality is made up of manly male qualities look how you can start changing them to the female once.
I believe that you grasped the idea that woman is to be filled with female qualities, but she needs some male ones as well, for her harmony – 20% of those would be enough. Provided she has it, she will be truly happy woman surrounded by wealth, health and love. Read more how to balance between female and male in my article Female Revelation,